How to Get Your Girlfriend to Watch Porn with You: 6 Great Tips

The porn industry is a ten billion dollar industry that continues to grow.

The industry has grown much bigger in the past years and has also evolved considerably, offering more options to different people. There is pornography for everyone, which has made porn less of a taboo and more of a culture.

Yet, despite the significant inroads made in the porn industry and the significantly increased level of social acceptance, porn remains uncomfortable for many women to watch and enjoy, especially in the company of their boyfriends. This has made porn, which can be both entertaining and educative for couples, to be a mostly solo act.

But this can change: you can get your girlfriend to watch porn with you if you try…

How to Watch Porn with Your Girlfriend

If you are looking for ways to open up new sexual experiences with your girlfriend, porn can be great. Porn would open up healthy discussions about your kinks, fetishes, and other sexual fantasies that you might have. But starting this conversation with your girlfriend can be a bit awkward. Here’s how to do it:

1. No Surprises 

If you want to get your girlfriend to watch porn with you, do not pull it on her as a surprise.

Suddenly turning on porn on date night is not the way to introduce porn into your relationship, nor is suggesting it during sex a great approach. You have to carefully ease your partner into the idea of watching pornography together. Create a relaxed and intimate setting for her and then bring it up.

2. Respect Her Decision

After bringing up introducing porn to your relationship, whatever the outcome of that conversation is, do not allow it to negatively impact your relationship. If she doesn’t agree to watch porn with you, do not try to pressure or guilt trip her into agreeing to it.

And if she agrees, make sure she doesn’t regret it by making it a pleasant and intimate experience between you two.

3. Make Your Reasons Known 

Beyond easing her into the idea, you must be clear on why you think bringing porn into your relationship is a good idea. An excellent way to articulate things would be to say you want to make things a bit more interesting.

The last thing your girlfriend wants is that your sex life is boring, which is why you are introducing porn to the relationship.

4. Do Not Replace Her With Porn 

Your girlfriend might inevitably take things personally and see your willingness to introduce porn to the relationship as an indictment of her sex skills. But you should not mistake replacing her with porn, especially if she has agreed to watch porn with you.

Make it a shared experience that is mutually beneficial to both of you.

5. Choose The Right Kind Of Porn

Some kinds of pornography are outrightly unsuitable for watching with your girlfriend. Rape porn or porn offensive to women might not be a good fit for a shared pornographic experience with your girlfriend.

Choose porn with elements of romance that are unlikely to offend your partner.

6. Manage Your Expectations

You have to remember always that while porn can be a great addition to your relationship, there are downsides to it as well.

A lot of pornography is acting, and your girlfriend does not become a porn star overnight just because you watch porn together as an activity. Don’t make your sex life about what you see in pornography.

Again, every woman is different, and what made the actress in the last video you watched together scream her head off might not work with your girlfriend.

Asides from the tips already given above, learning how to watch porn with your girlfriend requires that you pay attention to your girl. People react to things differently. If your girlfriend already openly watches porn, then you might not need too much persuasion to get her to share that activity with you.

Now that you know how to get your girlfriend to watch porn with you, there’s the additional problem of gradually introducing some things in the porn you watch together into your sex life. A simple and easy step would be to engage the services of a cam girl.

However, just like how you introduced porn, the transition to camming and viewing models must be subtle and not sudden.